Are you from people who live stormy romances? Did you find it
difficult to separate yourself from a partner when in the back you
intuit that it does not do you good? Did you know that the dynamics
of love could be explained by neurotransmitters? It is increasingly
known the fact of the process of falling in love through the chemicals
that run through the brain and allow the communication of neurons
with each other and through the human body, to be able to put
together a word that can explain the whole context: thought. The
first phase of an infatuation has the bases in the social standards
with respect to a concept, the beauty, that distances of a single
form depending on the time, the social classes, the fashions and the
diverse ethnic groups that live in our world; in some groups obesity
can be attractive, in other groups, more western tend to thin the
body, in others less like a type of makeup, in others some deformity
in the body, usually female, to attract male, to feel wanted and
wanted; here it is important to note the presence of substances that
enhance this attraction, pheromones, which through the nostrils
we can detect and which are amplified through the use of a soap or
a perfume (agreeing that a perfume or lotion is it smells different
between one being and another) and even many years will pass and
that smell will linger in our memories. When we see the person, we
see it, we feel it, we even hear it, we can immediately fall in love,
and here the key substance is called phenylethylamine, which is
secreted by the limbic system, and causes total shock, fortunately
for a short time, perhaps seconds, a few seconds, because then it
would be tragic for the organism, since the organs of the senses
and the autonomic nervous system, responsible for respiration,
heart rate or intestinal transit, are altered; it is believed that this
biochemical reaction has its analog in the toloache and the tummy
water, but that instead of causing an effect of falling in love, they
cause intoxication and damage to the central nervous system.
Subsequently, the human body must wash this substance from the
human body through other neurotransmitters, called vasoactive
amines, such as dopamine and norepinephrine, but they are not
harmless and cause some “havoc” in our body: have you felt that
your chest is beating? Do you feel the famous butterflies in your
stomach? Do you have many sighs? Is it hard for you to fall asleep?
Well, you have to thank these substances, here is the process of
falling in love or “what are you nailing”.
Later you must feel a calm, to be in peace completely, calmly, as
we would say “in the clouds” and without pain to anything, it is as
Tin-tan would say “. I feel straight languid”, but again it is an effect
of the so-called endorphins, which are substances that simulate
opium, so we are involved in a natural drug. This series of steps
become more powerful and intense through sexual relationships;
if these appear in early stages may appear a disenchantment, but
at the passage of this cascade sex plays a role of brutal intensifier
of the couple that is even the trigger of many crimes of passion and
intrafamily violence, due to secreted estrogens and testosterone,
which is where it allows human beings to “mark their territory”.
One can fall into excessive attachments in each stage, so we cannot
explain how that attractive woman walks with a man who treats
her badly or who does not even possess a physical attractiveness, or
viscerally, because it is very well explained by the fact of creating a
“Addiction” to each of the substances in the respective stage. As we
said love, like many other human feelings, have to do with secretion
of certain substances in the brain, called neurotransmitters, which
have the function of regulating behavior and emotions and that will
be reflected in our actions. But not only in emotions can the role
of these neurotransmitters be explained, as it can be seen in the
daily movement (a dance, walking, moving an arm) or is reflected
in our thinking, mathematical or subjective as in the appreciation of
a work of art, or in the reactions of stress to a danger and how the
substances in question act for any action of our days, or the logical
response to depression or manic-depressive disorder. Apparently,
every time we give a logical explanation of the emotions, we want to
find a justification, a cause causae, an irreversible determinism to
follow a behavior, and that is not true, we cannot blame our way of
thinking on the biochemical reactions They are always impregnated
in our consciousness, they can always be modified by ourselves
with totally volitional behaviors. Am I not the person responsible
for making the decision to determine this relationship so damaging
to me? Not at all, the best and only way to face these and other situations is through free will, to face and take responsibility for our
decisions, since the effect of these neurotransmitters modulates
the answers, but does not make us mentally deficient people that
prevent take the reins of our way, it does not go like this, free will or
that is the same being responsible for ourselves is the only answer,
because in the end, it does not stop being the daughter of our
neurochemical responses.