Understanding attachments as that intense or lasting affection
or bond of all living beings, but obviously more seen in humans,
depending on the type of relationship: parents to children, brothers
with siblings, cousins with cousins, obviously love relationships
in any variety, or also the increasingly frequent and insane
elation between the human being and diverse inanimate objects
as possessions. When one has an attachment, originally has the
connotation of protection, care, love, understanding or freedom,
but we have been responsible for putting words and concepts
such as control, possession, ownership, establishment of limits,
or breaking them, alienation, theft, obsession, jealousy, envy, etc.
Hopefully we understood something, that attachments always start
from a choice, from free will, from the use of our mental faculties in
its maximum expression, since every thought, concept, or mental
mechanism is expressed at the end of everything in a decision,
from the movement of an arm, blinking, turning, until the decision
to work, change address, choose what type of car to buy, choose a
profession, or above all, a couple.
We are so accustomed to others making decisions for us that
we lose our resolutive abilities, that is why attachments become so
powerful before us: Who has not been able to finish a relationship
even though deep down we know that it is not an unpleasant
situation? What difficulty do we have to stop drinking, smoking or
ingesting any other type of drugs? When you know you must finish
something, use the famous.” it hurts me to suffer.”, that’s why we do
not make the decisions, because we have that fear of consequences.
Attachments often speak to us of loyalty, of perseverance, of an
antiquity in an area that distinguishes us, of constancy, of time;
It will always be important to know how to use at the right time
and place the key word that balances the concept of attachment:
detachment. Being able to get rid of a relationship, whatever it is, is
what really makes us grow, frees us, makes us adults and can lead
to a better life, is the door that opens to a better world when we
had closed the previous one, the key of the future, it is a gift. Do you
want to have power in relationships of all kinds? Have the power of
detachment, and you will see that things will have a different image;
is to remove from you the controller, the limiting, the obtuse that
suffocates any creation or concept of life.